Lions and Tigers and Bears--would women want to have sex with them all?
So called nice guys saying not so nice things
So, I check the world writ large and find—yup.
Trump is still being a Dictator-Wanna-Be El Douche!
Yup—Donnie’s criminal trials are still happening, and the news media is salivating like Pavlov’s dog every time the man shifts in his soiled seat.
Oh hell yeah, Stormy brought a tsunami all over Trump’s poopy ass—and a-yup—he’s still not being jailed for contempt.
Yah know, it’s Tuesday.
But, I also learned to my dismay, and dark amusement, that some men seem to be upset that women want to *looks at papers* have sex with bears.
*Re-reads for clarity*
A-yup—that appears to be what they are saying.
Why—?
I asked my friend Chris McCabe, who has the low down on all things Internet, and she gave me the gist:
The whole thing is that the question to women was: would you rather find yourself in the woods with a man or a bear? Most women picked bear.
The idea was that any man could be an attacker and women could figure out a way to protect themselves from a bear.
Noticeably missing from the exchange was any mention of sex—and herein is the issue.
Sex is at the heart of all this anger and hullabaloo, isn’t it?
Men cannot be friendzoned because to be friendzoned means no sex and we cannot have that, can we? Fuck a girl and her friendship, no pun intended.
What good is a chick without dah sex? Like a bike without wheels, am I right?
Anyway, yo, women want to fuck bears!
What??? Sex wasn’t even a part of the question—but wait. Maybe it was, in that socially ambiguous way of many male/female scenario queries.
I mean, we have male comedians shaming a female audience member for hanging out with a guy she deemed her best friend in a viral video. Most found the exchange hilarious, and I found it disgusting, as the comedian appeared to be saying she was mistreating the man by merely being his friend and not anything more.
As if she owed him more simply by the fact that he wanted more—I guess what she wanted or felt did not matter at all.
We also have a male comedian saying, without shame, that if he asks a woman out on a date and he gives her any food she is paying for his kindness out of her ass.
Yah know, Mr. Funny would treat her like a cheap hooker.
I recently stated that mentality was fucked up on Twitter; women who are not official sex workers are not, in fact, hookers, only to be told by a female friend that American women act like hookers because they seek after financially-secure men.
So, so, so, much to unpack there.
Long and short: you seek financially viable partners because this speaks to maturity and responsibility. If kids come into play, you want a partner who can help you care for them and has shown stability in that area.
And while we are on the topic, I do have to put this out there. I have no issue with sex work or porn—hell, I write and create erotic stories and animation. There is something to be said for a woman owning her sexuality and presenting it the way she feels fit.
Hell, one of my favorite actresses was once upon a time porn star turned legit movie siren, Traci Lourdes. She had a tragic childhood where her gross stepdad pimped her out when she was 14—Traci turned it around on him and made a golden career out of it.
Lourdes’ sexuality was hers. She reclaimed it! She owned it! She rocked it! Best believe that sistah paying her own bills.
For this reason, I say GO STORMY DANIELS 3 Xs. Thank you, sis, for your courage.
In any case, you are not a gold digger because you want someone who can help you take care of the costs that come with living life, especially since both partners have to work to make ends meet to stay above the poverty line. Having a stable job indicates some measure of understanding that it is going to take two to make a thing go right, but there are other considerations as well.
Sexual chemistry—life goals, temperament, cultural, religious, and political ideology.
Nice tops the list but it isn’t the only thing on the list.
Women are the gatekeepers of their sex
They kinda have to be.
Pick the wrong fellah and you might be left with an 18-year price tag you’re paying yourself. Under a Republican regime, the options in this arena are even worse to non-existent.
Women being able to make informed decisions about their sexuality and when and if they can become mothers play a huge part in their ability to be financially stable and self-sufficient themselves.
Modern Conservatives know this, which is why they are trying to knee-cap women and force scenarios where they have to rely solely on men for their care. While also blaming women for wanting financially stable partners.
Make it make sense.
The Elon Musks of the world is truly chomping at the bit for women to have tons of unwanted kiddos, as he wants us all pumping out workers too poor to do anything but beg for low-paying jobs from his caviar-coated fingers.
Bad Boys and Girls
This is not to say that there are not some flavahs of raunchy that a guy or gal can get into beyond the vanilla; hey, whatever floats your boat. But even in such scenarios, these people are looking for Dark Side Mamasitahs and Brawlers with a heart of gold.
Even so, they also want to be treated with care, dignity, and respect only with a dash of spice.
Or, as one comedian quipped, every man wants a hooker; he just wants her on her first day on the job.
Heavy lift that—but understandable. Villains are fun—but only in the short term.
Still, every individual has the right to decide what they want in regard to their interpersonal relationships, and no disingenuous response to a question about male-female dating perceptions will change that.
At the end of the day—a resounding yes!
Most women want nice guys just as most men want nice girls because, guess what, most normal folk want to be treated well.
That is presumably why some women picked Bear—as of right now, Manosphere men seem to think a woman’s choice boils down to a “nice guy” and what kind of dinner indicates her need to give up her drawers in exchange for his “niceness.”
Eh—anyone who thinks this way may not be so nice after all.
Men who don't understand why women choose the bear have never seen "Deliverance". Most of them don't understand that they're safer encountering a bear too. Their risk assessment skills suck. Bears are predictable. If left alone, they'll ignore you or they can be scared away. Most animals in the forest have the good sense to stay the fuck away from humans. I for one can't say I blame them. Lol. I prefer to avoid other humans too🤷♀️
Given a choice, I’d MUCH prefer 10 female friends and 1 female sexual relationship to 10 sexual relationships and 1 female friend. No contest!